You want things to last? One crucial step toward having a great marriage: No Secrets.
It can be a major problem when you keep secrets in a marriage. Whether the secrets are about money, parenting decisions, your emotional state, or anything you keep from your spouse because you are afraid of their reaction.
Keeping secrets is a form of dishonesty, and keeps you from developing trust and intimacy.
Be open and honest with your spouse and take responsibility for your feelings and actions, and ask for a little understanding.
#freebie – unless the secret is a brand new Harley Davidson (or Jeep) for their birthday…don’t keep ’em.