There was quite a bit of response to our post last Monday entitled “Touch Me“.
The primary comments and/or questions from you were two-fold:
“…seems like we are too busy.”
“…once we get to bed we’re too tired?”
The answer: Schedule some Sex.
It might sound unromantic, but penciling in a little excitement in the sheets will make sure our busy schedules don’t get in the way of the intimacy that’s so crucial to a loving relationship.
What you lose in spontaneity will be gained back with the excitement you feel anticipating a night (or morning or afternoon) of fooling around.
Put it on the calendar.
#freebie – Don’t fight in bed. Your bed should generally be reserved for sleep and romance. If you start associating your bed with issues that you’re working through, you’ll start to avoid each other. Work out disagreements before going to bed, or at least agree to wait until morning to discuss.