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Waste of Time

October 6, 2017

The biggest waste of time in any marriage is trying to change your spouse.

Why?

Because generally speaking… the problems you have with your spouse are problems you have with yourself.

When you try to change your spouse two bad things happen:

1) you come across as a nag and whiner;
2) you send a destructive message that “who you are is not good enough”.

Nobody likes either one of these things, so instead, focus on changing yourself.

G&C

#freebie – If you are married, the person God uses to change you the most is your spouse.  Let Him do the work. Your spouse is an instrument of God’s love. #lookatyourspousedifferently


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